let that man cook

don't worry this post isn't about my love of lil b. the tacos i just made were something like orgasmic and it got me to thinking about my grandmother always said " never feed a man who don't want to leave" and after this meal i understand why. i almost wanna buy myself a speedy bag and some dior pumps and smack my own ass.

food and home cooking comes from the heart. this is something you put time, energy, and thought into. the level of the dish also indicates your dedication and feelings to this person. spaghetti says thanks for the head but im not ready to commit to you. its way too simple. spaghetti doesn't say devotion. tacos say a little bit more depending on how you do them. if you just pour some meat in a shell you are admitting that either you don't care or you cant cook. you devalue yourself with these fuckass 30 minute meals. break out a cookbook and sweat your edges.

ive told girls that i only had a passing interest in that i didn't cook, but ive made steaks and salmon for girls that i had a true devotion to. baked goods are a totally different level of emotion because they required a higher focus. cooking and baking are two different things. baking is like chemistry. everything has to be exact. cooking is trial and error you don't need measurements.i made this one guy some double chocolate chunk monster cookies and lets just say the payoff was worth it ;)

im not old fashioned or traditional at all and if you never lift a finger in the kitchen go right ahead. but i come from a family where food is love check my waistline. i only allow those who i want to see the goodness i produce and come back for more to taste my treats. ive had someone who hated to cook make me dinner and it was special because i knew she was suffering in that kitchen and that food was the turriblest but i appreciated the effort. its more personal than buying something because there was dedication in that action.

if you love somone feed them!