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So this discussion/debate came up: who should pay on dates? Someone didn’t believe me when I told them I have never paid for a date. My friend confirmed my statement in that she has never paid for a date either. We aren’t against it, but it comes at a certain point. I’m old fashioned and if we are still in the dating phase you need to be paying. Yall chicks can throw around all that I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T shit around all you want to, but it’s the principle of the matter. A lady should not have to pay unless yall are in a relationship. At that point it doesn’t matter who pays, but in the courting stage the man should pay. Honestly I don’t know any men who would go out with a female and expect her to pay in the first place. My male cousins have told me the only girls they let pay are the ones that they wanna run the smash and dash on. If they really like a girl she gets the three star treatment then when they are official she gets the five star. Maybe its just the guys I know because ive also talked to some girls who are like they pay for dates all the time. I’m not against it just not from jump. Some guys get offended when you offer to pay. No feminist morals over here I’m like church gotta give 10% to get through these pearly gates.

“Ashlee you go on dates with girls how does that work?” I date studs/doms whatever you wanna call them and they pay. Most of them are of the belief I wear the pants so im gonna take the lead on this. They consider themselves to be gentlemen and are better at acting like one than most real men. I’m not opposed to this at all. Treat a woman like a lady and she’ll act like one. Only time I have paid for anything with a stud was when we had gone on a few dates and I was like ok she’s stunted a bit now and proved worthy so I can reach down and uses my coins and dollars on her. This is pretty typical. That usher song Trading Places applies to us too. The few times I have gone out with femmes they paid because it then turns to the “who asked who” rule. Whoever initiated the date pays. If I asked a girl out which I probably never will because well I just don’t care that much I would pay and have no problem with it….but I get to feel a butt cheek.

This might sound old fashioned to some people, but I have talked to enough people to know it’s just not me. Everyone is different though and of course whatever works for you.