do you remember your first time? how was it? do you still talk to the person? often times your first time is def not your best time. thats why many people wait until they are married thinking that its gonna be this super special moment and its gonna be all fireworks and you will be in love forever. ok look its gonna hurt and you probably wont enjoy it. im just being honest. thats why i didnt wait and save my first time for someone i loved because i didnt wanna be disappointed. im not saying that everyones is horrible thats why i want people to submit stories but its def not like in the movies. you might enjoy it might not hurt if he knows what hes doing. the guy i lost mine to had figured out a system to loosin me up and dammit it worked i just didnt enjoy it cuz after a while the novelty of some man pumping on top of me wore off. i want my wedding night to be off the chain damn wild neighbors calling the police why are yo draws in the ceiling fan what the hell did we do with a waffle iron crazy so we are gonna stop having sex a month before the wedding so we get that good i gotta have you build up. but we must test drive the goodies before we make that committment. i only wanna get married once so i need to know what you are working with and what skills we need to develop.
i understand that sex is a big emotional committment and that many women wait so that they can give that special part of themselves to the man that they have dedicated their love and life to.......but you are missing out. like yeah you may say oh im not worrying about pregnancy and STDs and this is true but if you practice safe sex you dont have to worry about these things either. you may say oh well what if we have sex and he dips. thats a hard emotional blow but what if when you get married you and your husband have months of bad sex and he leaves you for another more experienced woman all because you didnt know how to throw it back? yea its ratchet but its real. a mans heart, logic, and penis are closely related and by letting him get a teaspoon from your sugar bowl can greatly affect your influence over him. also some men fear having sex with a virgin. they dont wanna be the standard that you base all your sexual experiences on. some men like it because theyre thinking ok yea i know shes clean, she'll always remember me yadda yadda yadda. a man may also like marrying a virgin because hes thinking oh yea im the only man my wife will ever know about. greatly outweighing these factors are the fact that hes gonna wanna tear that shit up but cant because you got that extra extra tight. loose is never ok but when you are prepared to put in work and hes got all this nut built up because hes been with you for so long and hopefully faithful that when he does get some hes gonna wanna put in overtime and when he finally releases it will come out like a civil rights hose. a virgin cannot handle that.
sex is just fun. if it with a committed partner or even with a fuck buddy getting it in is the shit...if yall are doing it right. if you have sex with the same person for a long time and they know your body and can hit all those spots gotdamn they might have you in the kitchen at 4am singing anita baker making them pancakes, grits, eggs, bacon, and freshly queezed orange juice. chile go to bed with a perm and by the time they are finished with you ya got locs. you may not even have to know them that long if they are skilled cause some people idk if its practice or they were born with but *whew*
it is definitely a personal choice and im not saying go out and fuck the first person you meet. if it is for religious reasons then absolutely hold onto your faith over all but my motto is carpe diem. you never know when you could go so take the risk and leap go get you some kapow bomchickawown. i dont really dont believe in soul mates so im not saving my vag for 20 something years to give to one person. and plus when im married i wanna be able to be making my wife cofee i wanna be able to look out the window and remember the time i got it in on the back porch and the neighbors caught us or the time i got a leg cramp but kept going cuz it was too good to stop hmm or the time ok let me stop......good times ;-)
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