February Love

ok technically this post is about may/december romances but i love the song february love by the dream so oh well its my blog, my titles anywhore lets keep it moving.

being in your twenties you often find yourself engaged in romances with older people. it  doesnt always happen on purpose but for some reason we always get approached by older men and women. ive been told by several people that i look 15 so im wondering are they pedophiles or what? while they may still be in their twenties i find my self with ppl who are kicking 30 in the ass as well do many of my other friends. there is a fine line in finding the appropriate age gap though. if you are 28 wtf are you doing with someone 17? what do yall talk about freestyle fridays? you just want someone who wont notice your shortcomings that a woman in your age group will easily notice. perhaps you want a girlfriend who wont hold you accountable for your actions and will take any attitudes or inappropriate actions just because you are their older boo.

we dont actively seek out older mates but it seems to just happen. i think its because we have a certain standard that our fellow age cohorts just dont meet. idk i know i date older women because they have more to talk about; they know more about relationships and can handle their emotions; and i like someone with a job, their own place, and a car. someone 26 is more likely to have these things than a 21 year old. also the most obvious reason the sex is on point. im just being honest but they've been getting it in for quite some time so they have perfected their techniques (can i get a testimony?) we all find ourselves in the same situation. our companions believe (wrongly) that just because they are older they can either A) treat us like children B) play us because we're young so therefore we dont know anything or C) not treat it like a real relationship because they couldnt see themself being serious with someone so young. my question is if you didnt want to be bothered with someone younger who consequently has had different life experiences why are you upset when they say they are going to the club with their friends. i just turned 21 so of course im still trying to get it in. look grandpa youve been in the club scene for awhile so you know what its like to have that new legal freedom. if you want someone who cant do it with no hands (why does that song go so hard every girl i know as soon as it comes on they turn into a magic city professional) i suggest you try someone in your age group.

the most irritating situation that comes up in these matchings is the being treated like a child. if we are having a discussion and you say youre too young you wouldnt understand you are simply acknowledging the fact that you are the one thats dating down and couldnt get anyone in your age group. perhaps you could but maybe you are trying to recaputure those last few days of your youth and got tired of fucking girls with new jack swing pussy. but why make light of our age differences? obviously you like me so what does it matter how old i am?  also never try to lie to me or get over on me assuming that because im younger i havent seen or heard these same stories before. everyone of my friends has an older sibling who is close to the age of the people we're dating so we know what people in your age group are thinking and doing.

the hardest point is that you often have to question how serious the relationship is to them. they may see you as something to do or a cute little thing to occupy their time why they look for a serious relationship. this can be hard because you may have settled into a certain set of emotions for this person and the relationship may be very real to you. this is where the games and the lies come into play. they just wanna keep their young tenderoni in check while they look for the real mrs. right that they can settle down with. if you find yourself smitten with this older person it can hurt to discover that they dont see you as a long term situation.

i just dont see myself settling down with someone my age idk why im just not interested. i prefer ready for the world to chris brown and wu tang clan to waka flacka. if we have similar interest and can carry on a good conversation my age should be a null and void issue. i also know people who are older than me and are seriously lacking in any cultural experiences and therefore i come off as the older one which can be very irritating. i know for a fact that when im 27 my girlfriend or hopefully wife will not be anywhere near 21.